Sex on a beach or mountaintop.Boning in an airplane bathroom or while waring a butt plug:)Getting it on in a park.Fantasies that center around novelty (incorporating a new sexual activity like anal or oral)or adventure(having sex in a new location) are common.The feeling of facing the unknown and trying something for the first time can give you a thrilling adrenaline kick,and for some people,arousal is connected to that feeling of adrenaline.In long term relationships in particular,kepping novelty alive is paramount for fighting bedroom boredom and maintaining an active sex life.Trying something new reignites the passion you had at the beginning of the relationship.Whether you want to explore anal play,non missionary penetrative sex,69 ing,or bringing food into the bedroom,the first step is to talk about the addition of the act.