Turns out,long walks on the beach,candlelit dinners,and eye contact during love making aren’t just romantic hyperbole.They’re all part of the fantasy of being desired,intimate and romantic.Many people want to be treated like royalty.Romantic gestures show a large amount of time,effort and maybe even money being put in,and can make us feel significant to that person.WHAT TO DO ABOUT ITIf you find yourself fantasizing about this,it might be because you don’t feel appreciated in real life.If you’re in a relationship,you and your partner may need to spend more time together,learn each others’love languages,or have sex in positions that allow you to sustain eye contact.If you’re single ,you might explore doing a massage chain with a friend,taking yourself out to a nice dinner,or making love to yourself in the candlelight.